Holding Developmental Tension
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Leading the way when couples are lost in their own issues How often do you encounter couples who are so deeply entangled with each other that they
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Tevis Cup: The Toughest 100 Mile Horse Race on the Planet
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It’s a great privilege to choose your suffering in this life. 36,000’ of elevation change. 100 miles. 100 degrees. 6 hours of mild heat stroke. 20 miles
The Labyrinth of Love – The Path to a Soulful Relationship
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By Chelsea Wakefield, PhD, LCSW Chelsea Wakefield is an Associate Professor and Director of the Couples Center at the Psychiatric Research Institute of the University of Arkansas
Trauma, Part 3: Bringing it Together
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Over the past two months, we’ve examined some key principles behind trauma-informed care for couples. Now it’s time to take a closer look at what these concepts
Couples and Trauma, Part 2: Red flags that may reveal a troubled past
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As explained in last month’s article, hidden trauma can be a serious obstacle in your efforts to help partners build stronger, more trusting relationships. We touched on
Couples and Trauma, Part 1: Understanding the Challenges
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It’s been said that the past is never really dead. All our prior experiences have the power to shape our thoughts and perceptions – which in turn
Endurance Rides and Relationships
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Our daughter Molly has taken up endurance horseback riding. Two years ago, she rode 600 miles across Mongolia in 9 days. Now she is training for the
Are You Working Harder Than Your Clients?
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Over the years, I’ve talked with many therapists who told me they feel exhausted after seeing certain couples. They describe the sensation of dragging partners along a
Couples Who Avoid Conflict, Part 2: Principles & Techniques
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In my last post, I shared 4 key insights that can help you lay the groundwork for counseling couples who shy away from conflict. In looking at
Understanding the Dangers of Conflict Avoidance
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You’ve seen the pattern before. A couple comes to you, seeking help with tension that they just can’t understand or resolve. As you’re working to build openness
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