Trauma, Part 3: Bringing it Together
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Over the past two months, we’ve examined some key principles behind trauma-informed care for couples. Now it’s time to take a closer look at what these concepts
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Couples and Trauma, Part 2: Red flags that may reveal a troubled past
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As explained in last month’s article, hidden trauma can be a serious obstacle in your efforts to help partners build stronger, more trusting relationships. We touched on
Couples and Trauma, Part 1: Understanding the Challenges
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It’s been said that the past is never really dead. All our prior experiences have the power to shape our thoughts and perceptions – which in turn
Are You Working Harder Than Your Clients?
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Over the years, I’ve talked with many therapists who told me they feel exhausted after seeing certain couples. They describe the sensation of dragging partners along a
A Couples Therapy Session After Infidelity: Transcript of a Role-play, Part Two
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I’ve been highlighting ways I’ve used Initiator-Inquirer when working with couples who have experienced infidelity. Recently I shared a role play with a couple we called Logan
A Couples Therapy Session After Infidelity: Transcript of a Role-play
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Infidelity can be devastating to a couple’s relationship.Even before we walk into the room and learn anything about the couple, we can be sure the crisis has
Using a Developmental Approach and the Initiator-Inquirer Process with Cases of Infidelity
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Few situations are as painful for a couple, and as difficult for a couples’ therapist to work through as the experience of infidelity. The bottom-line questions you’ll
Clinical Transcript Reveals Symbiotic Yearnings and Hidden Barriers to Commitment
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Therapists who train with me know that many couples who come to therapy are stuck in symbiotic patterns that impede the growth of each partner and also
Is Confrontation Important in Couples Therapy?
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Confrontation is much more of an art than a science, especially in the intricacy of couples therapy. What comes to mind when you think about confrontation in
This Book and Comedy Show Hit Close to Home
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Today’s blog is meant to bring some smiles your way! It’s about a video and book that are guaranteed to make you laugh– and help your clients,
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