
Relationship / Marriage Preparation
My passion for educating couples early in their committed relationships was initially driven by personal experience. When I married at 22, my husband and I lacked sufficient
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My passion for educating couples early in their committed relationships was initially driven by personal experience. When I married at 22, my husband and I lacked sufficient

When therapists ask me which tool has had the biggest impact on couples around the world, the answer is always the same: the Initiator–Inquirer (I-I) Process. It

I think every couples therapist or coach knows that moment when… You ask your couple what they want to accomplish and you see their eyes drift off

Since its origins, roughly 125 years ago, the field of psychotherapy has been primarily focused on individual clients, applying theories and practice that grew from Western European

Some couples come to therapy not just hurting – but hurting each other. They bring chaos, hostility, interruptions, and accusations, and sometimes you get caught in the

High-conflict, emotionally reactive couples are on the rise. In today’s charged world, many of us are seeing more couples who escalate quickly, struggle with emotional dysregulation, and

A simple visual to help couples understand and break up the pattern of conflict without shame or shutdown. What if your couples could actually see the roles

All couples engage in some conflict when they’re in therapy. But some can’t seem to manage themselves for even a few minutes without exploding into rage, resentment,

They say the right tool makes all the difference. But what if the tool you’re using wasn’t designed for the job? Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Dialectical

It’s frustrating when a couple seeks your help — and then resists every effort you make. I’ve been there, and you have too – possibly too many
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