Couples Therapy

How to Get the Most from Our Work Together

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Couples are often uncertain what to expect from the process of couples coaching. They are not sure of what to expect of the coach or

How to Get the Most From Your Couples Therapy

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Couples are often uncertain what to expect from the process of couples therapy. They are not sure of what to expect of the therapist or

Couples therapy with one partner who is stuck.

Couples Therapy: Confronting a Stuck, Betrayed Partner

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For this blog, I’d like to address a common challenge in couples therapy: how to confront a betrayed partner who remains in a victim position

Confrontation Video: Challenging Hypocrisy

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With certain presenting problems, it’s obvious that some confrontation will be required. For example, the denial associated with drugs, alcohol or gambling addiction will inevitably

How to Stun Your Therapist (Or Your Spouse) With Your Attitude.

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If you happen to be in couples therapy just say this at your next meeting: Today I’m here to change my attitude about change, because

Motivation in Couples Therapy

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Regression and its Impact in Couples Therapy

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Regressed partners in couples therapy often demand that either you or their partner focus on them. At times, attending to and even promoting regression can

Attachment and Differentiation in Couples Therapy

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This year’s couples conference has now come and gone. Once again we enjoyed dynamic presentations from state of the art thinkers and practioners, such as