How to Get the Most from Our Work Together
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Couples are often uncertain what to expect from the process of couples coaching. They are not sure of what to expect of the coach or
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How to Get the Most From Your Couples Therapy
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Couples are often uncertain what to expect from the process of couples therapy. They are not sure of what to expect of the therapist or
10 Skills for Early Sessions
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Each year I mentor a small group of therapists to help them set goals for their business and clinical skills. I often ask them to
Are You Smarter Than a Fox?
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Have you heard of the Killdeer? No, it’s not a mammal, but an amazing bird from the sandpiper family. The Killdeer do not build much
What new marriages can learn from failed restaurants
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As you probably know, the divorce rate for American couples in a first marriage is about 50%. When you factor in the high numbers of
What’s better than fixing your marriage?
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What if a good marriage was not about focusing on fixing problems? What if a good marriage was not learning a new set of skills
How to Stop Going in Circles with an Entrenched Couple
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Some partners just stubbornly refuse to be accountable for their own role in a mutual mess and you find yourself going in circles in therapy
How to Stun Your Therapist (Or Your Spouse) With Your Attitude.
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If you happen to be in couples therapy just say this at your next meeting: Today I’m here to change my attitude about change, because
What To Do When You Screw Up With Your Partner
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You messed up. You really blew it. Your partner is giving you heck about it, seething with disappointment and hurt. Guilt washes over you, as
First of Four-Part Series: Challenges of Hostile Angry Couples
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I consult on so many cases where therapists are struggling to be effective leaders with hostile angry couples, I know it is a widespread problem.
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