Disrupt Symbiosis

Confrontation Transcript: Disrupting Hidden Symbiosis

couples therapy confrontation transcript, disrupting hidden symbiosisTherapists who train with me know to look for symbiosis and understand how symbiosis impedes the tremendous growth potential that exists in any couples relationship. Sometimes symbiosis is obvious because a couple has been stuck there for a very long time. Other times it is more disguised. Below you will read a transcript from a session with a couple deciding whether or not to get married. In this couple, the female partner acts as if she is the more mature grounded partner. She is decisive where her boyfriend is anxious and conflicted. In this session I decided to confront her hidden “stuckness.” She had been dancing around his requests for several weeks. Ellyn:Let’s regroup a bit today.… Read more...