Desire Discrepancy

How to Deal with Desire Discrepancy

Reprinted from San Jose Mercury News (CA) Pete occasionally writes answers for a Q&A column on relationships in the San Jose Mercury News. This month we're sharing a column he wrote on the common problem of sexual desire discrepancy. Question: We've been happily married for ten years, but lately we are having a disagreement. My husband wants to have sex much more often than I do. How do we figure out a way so that both of us can be happy? Answer: This is a problem with very few clues. It's like trying to reconstruct an entire civilization from a few shards of pottery. Or like asking a travel agent, “We don't agree on where we want to go for an important vacation.… Read more...