Reflections on Attachment and Differentiation
At this year’s Couples Conference in Boston, I participated in a panel discussion with Sue Johnson, one of the founders of Emotionally Focused Therapy, or
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Attachment and Differentiation in Couples Therapy
This year’s couples conference has now come and gone. Once again we enjoyed dynamic presentations from state of the art thinkers and practitioners, such as
In Quest of the Mythical Mate (Hard Cover Book)
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How To Be a Better Couples Therapist
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A Look Back at the Developmental Model
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What 33,000 Hours of (Mostly) Couples Therapy Has Taught Me
I’ve specialized in working with couples for 40 years. A “back-of-the-envelope” calculation tells me that’s about 33,000 hours of couples work. You can bet I’ve
More on The Great Attachment Debate
We continue to review The Great Attachment Debate, a series of interviews published in Psychology Networker. I wrote about the first three experts in last
Is Confrontation Important in Couples Therapy?
Confrontation is much more of an art than a science, especially in the intricacy of couples therapy. What comes to mind when you think about
Better Communication Now
Transferring Initiator-Inquirer Skills Learned in Therapy Sessions to Home We love getting questions and comments from our readers. This month we will answer a wonderful
Working to Build Attachment while Facilitating Differentiation
Last month I invited readers to list Attachment and Differentiation-based interventions in two different lists on the blog. A special thanks to those of you
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