This past week I demonstrated how to use the Developmental Model to tackle tough impasses you will likely encounter. I hope you found my demonstrations helpful whether you’re just getting started or are an experienced couples therapist.
Thanks for your interest in this powerful and transformative work.
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What Do You Do When a Client Can’t Stop Obsessing About the Details of an Affair?
Often, after infidelity has been revealed, a betrayed partner will obsess about the details.
“How many times did it happen?” “Who else knew?” “Did you take them to any of our special spots?” “Did you give them any gifts?” “Did our children know?”
It might seem counterintuitive, but I actually find there to be some value in obsessing over the details.
If you weren't able to join us live, that’s exactly what I demonstrated on this webinar.
I showed you exactly what to do when you have a client who obsesses about details, and how to use that energy to make progress. I also showed you how to set the stage for a strong commitment to therapy and to honest revelation.