Your free confrontation download will give you ideas on how to get started and how to think about the process of change in couples therapy. However, there are many unique situations you will encounter. Working with infidelity is one that will require skillful confrontation.
If you want a more in depth understanding of how to work with couples in the aftermath of an affair, listen to Affairs in Couples Therapy. It is a one hour training session with a written transcript about working with couples where one partner has had an affair.